I think we all look for what we want in a relationship,looks,personality,and other things. Have you ever thought that maybe what you want is what you don't need? You know,you might think you want someone muscular and end up going with someone slim, or you think you want someone smart and funny but instead you get someone who's smart,but serious. Ever thought you should go outside of what you're looking for from time to time?

Having someone there for you, is somewhat of a need. Without friends, so much isn't taken care of. Same goes if you don't have somebody to truly love you, more than a friend.

Least that's what I think.

The traits we look for usually aren't what we end up with. Though in a way we do. Usually girls look for the dark and handsome type. But then they end up with one of the most opposite people they can find. Love just happens sometimes, sometimes not even by choice.

I never actually try to find a guy that I prefer. For myself, it is more about if we click when we meet.

i think the better question is..
is what we want=what's good for us?
Ive been in relationships with guys in a specific category of people.. cause i was attracted to that. WELL.. haha.. it wasn't healthy for me. it was horrible lol. but to answer your question i dont think what we want is what we need.. love just comes. you can't stop it.