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Winged Fantasy - October 31, 2007 12:30 PM (GMT)
How do you deal with life?
Do you take life as it comes? Get over things as they happen? Plan your life?

Explain!

I take life as it comes. I get over things, that hold me back. I would never want to know my future if we could. I want my life to happen how it's going to.

fearless freak - October 31, 2007 12:33 PM (GMT)
i just take it one day at a time

GuardianSin - November 2, 2007 10:00 AM (GMT)
I think it is a natural thing and most do not notice, but people plan thier lives just a tiny bit. If you know what you are doing tomorrow, then you are planning for the future you know :P . Eh I take life as it comes for the most part. It comes, easy or hard, I learn to get over the issues in my life. The reason that is, is because people only live for a short while people shouldn't waste it being depressed or angry. I personally have planned some details in my life. Like where I would like to live, how my wedding might look like. Just small things that most people think about.

Winged Fantasy - November 2, 2007 10:15 AM (GMT)
True. Even if you plan ahead a day, its your future. I think its best to plan small things, or far in the future, but taking your life day to day as things happen is best, for me.

sparklynshiney - November 2, 2007 11:26 AM (GMT)
i think i plan my life a little bit.. but sometimes things just pop up :)

fearless freak - November 2, 2007 01:45 PM (GMT)
this how i take life

the songs a classic Megadeth song but done acoustically <i'm not sure if that is a real word by the way

Marv - November 2, 2007 07:44 PM (GMT)
I guess I take it one week at a time. Once one week is over, I start over.

A.FIRE.INSIDE - November 2, 2007 08:22 PM (GMT)
I'm actually not that good at dealing with life when the going gets tough, I suffer from a mild case of depression, that my doctor says I should take medication for. But I find out ways to get over things, so I reject his offerings of med's.

I don't like making big plans too often, because I'm aproned to being let down on them. So, basically, I take it one step at a time; baby steps. 8)

.Spancake - November 2, 2007 08:36 PM (GMT)
Meh.. I just keep things simple and to the point. I try to keep myself upbeat, but sometimes I go all emo and stuff. Nonetheless, I just give 110% at everything I do, and keep at it! Even when times are hard I know just to keep my chin up and FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT to the end! =D

Not to mention I'm extremely arrogant... :hmph

Shadow - November 7, 2007 02:17 AM (GMT)
I have a hard time just getting over things. So much happens to me, it makes it really hard. I usually just keep it to myself though, and bottle it up. Listen to music, sometimes talk to my closest friends about it.

Ging - November 7, 2007 03:33 AM (GMT)
I usually dont XD I tend to ignore people that I dislike and pay attention to those whom I do like.

oh wise one - November 8, 2007 04:32 AM (GMT)
I am a huge planner but I am also greatly flexible. I like to plan out my days but I take life as it comes. If something doesn't happen the way I planned, I don't get upset.

Darky - November 8, 2007 07:25 AM (GMT)
QUOTE (Ging @ Nov 6 2007, 09:33 PM)
I usually dont XD I tend to ignore people that I dislike and pay attention to those whom I do like.

I totally agree bro!

[$]Xarina - December 2, 2007 02:22 PM (GMT)
I plan for weeks ahead but only the things I have to do, school things etc...

Other then that I try to take it as it comes, I have no problem firgiving people or get over things.

My best friend calls me a perfectionist and says I'm prude :hmph

Concrete Angel - December 3, 2007 01:13 AM (GMT)
Personally, I take life one day at a time. No point in fretting about tomorrow when I can enjoy today, and no point in regretting yesterday when I can look forward to a brighter future. =]

Live, Love, Laugh, and No Regrets. =] also, I try to live life to the fullest with no regrets. Honestly, that's what I think everyone should be doing. Makes life a whole lot easier, less stressful, and a lot more fun for those who look down on it.

AngelKing - December 3, 2007 06:47 AM (GMT)
QUOTE (Darky @ Nov 7 2007, 11:25 PM)
QUOTE (Ging @ Nov 6 2007, 09:33 PM)
I usually dont XD I tend to ignore people that I dislike and pay attention to those whom I do like.

I totally agree bro!

True and people I don't like, they usually know it. :P But I do try to make some sort of plan or least have some idea what I want to do. Besides that, I live life as it comes.

Poptart - December 3, 2007 12:31 PM (GMT)
oi, this is a tough one, well i guess i do make small plans for like a day or two in advacne maybe, but i normally forget or never go through with it. I know my spine is hell of alot bigger in my mind so i'll say i'm going o do something tomorrow (like ask a girl out all crazy like or something) and then the next day i'll either not do it or it will end up with me going "uhm....yeah....so.......yeah....uhm.....i...uh...was thinking.....you know" I mean yeah i make plans for the future like what college i'll go to (Like i am now and let me tell you its a b**ch >,<) or how many kids i want but for now i guess i take it one week or so at a time.

Mad Hatter - December 3, 2007 07:05 PM (GMT)
I live for today and look forward to tomorrow. Bumps in the path are quickly forgotten or smoothed over. My one and only goal is happiness.

Drgnmastr_Alex - December 3, 2007 08:39 PM (GMT)
I tend to take one day at a time, although I am trying to plan ahead.


...I'm still working on that. -.-

Dark_Plague - December 7, 2007 02:35 AM (GMT)
Hah... I take it one week at a time. It's not enough time into the future to get fussy over, but at the same time, helps me stay organized and stress-free.

Dark Kitsune - December 7, 2007 04:09 AM (GMT)
I trick ppl into going into a teleporer, and them make them blow each other up.

http://www.geevee.com/index.php?p=viewvideo&v=16281

Ingenium. - December 10, 2007 06:49 PM (GMT)
I'm sure that everybody moans a bit about life when they're in a black whole. So do I. My exams are starting tomorrow and I still need to learn a lot, sure, I moan about it but I'm also happy that I got holidays afterwards.

I look at life at both sides, negative and positive. If something bad happens, I cry but then again, I look at the positive things of it. I'm sure there are bad/sad things where you can't see a positive thing about it but still, you can't look at life at only one side. If you do, I'm sure you're unhappy. And if you do, you need help. 'Cause it's not healthy.

That's my way of dealing with life. I take it as how it goes and I deal with it.

Death Lion - December 11, 2007 03:40 AM (GMT)
i sleep and i don't plan nither cause life can bite you on your a**

Stetekai - December 13, 2007 10:12 AM (GMT)
Plan?? my life is so boring and uneventful i don't need to plan it, apart from "Lose Weight", I keep putting that one off.

I can sometimes believe why young people do crime ans vandalism, sure you'll be labelled 'scum' by society but at least something happens in your life, until you end up in jail then you're stuck with the rest of us again just less toilet paper.

(I do not condone Crime or Vandalism, if either are committed against me i will hunt them down and set them on fire with Thermite or something).

When things do pop-up in my routine though i usually can manage it XD

Doomsayer - December 13, 2007 07:55 PM (GMT)
I plan a few things what I find are important, the rest I take it how it comes, life has it's ups and downs; you've got to live your life. The beauty of living to me is that you only live once and life is short, you've got to live it.

packmule - December 23, 2007 02:32 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Winged Fantasy @ Oct 31 2007, 06:30 AM)
Do you take life as it comes? Get over things as they happen? Plan your life?


A combination of all three, for myself.

Vivian - December 27, 2007 12:48 AM (GMT)
Take one bullet at a time. Try not to worry over everything. There are things in life you cannot control. Secondly don't be obsessed with material things. They will not be with you once you're dead, and they won't be the ones crying at your funeral. Focus on family,values and morals, and self-love as well as self-worth. The key is to keep your head up where you are so you can elevate to a higher place that is better than your current one. IE,if you are poor down-out-of-luck,etc,you should especially look up because that's the only way to go for you now. Money isn't everything anyway. I've seen homeless children with better attitudes towards life than a lot of other teens who are not "misfortunate" like they are. You can be rich, but still poor in spirt and soul is what I am saying.

Deazy - December 27, 2007 02:15 AM (GMT)
I dont plan... I just go with the flow

Toast - December 29, 2007 07:13 PM (GMT)
I really dont know, my life is far from perfect and i deal with things but i always keep them i never "get over them"

Chopstix - December 30, 2007 08:13 PM (GMT)
Plan ahead, but still take it one step at a time. If you rush yourself, you will get stressed and it sucks. Just approach everything with a positive attitude too.

Its cheesy but it works.

fearless freak - December 30, 2007 08:19 PM (GMT)
one day at a time

cn999er - December 30, 2007 08:21 PM (GMT)
By using three phrases:
"It was like that when I got here"
"My dog ate my homework"
"I don't remember that"

Megume - December 31, 2007 04:18 AM (GMT)
Drawing, Gaming...the usual.

Kaname - December 31, 2007 08:50 AM (GMT)
The way I deal with life? Well to put simply I try to prevent contact with people as much as I possibly can. I've been betrayed too much in my life and it's hard for me to trust people. Lets just say I'm the type who looks like he dislikes everything and pretty much keeps to himself. Hard to believe how my attitude changes so much on the internet. Anyways I deal with life like it was always my enemy, it's what I'm used to.

Concrete Angel - December 31, 2007 07:33 PM (GMT)
I try to take it one step at a time, but I'm sure we've all planned ahead for things or worried about the future.

I try not to, but there are times when I can't help it. But why worry about tomorrow when you can live today right?

Life motto - Live life to the fullest with no regrets.

^^

Bioshox - December 31, 2007 10:43 PM (GMT)
I eat it.com

But really i just live ereyday Live, Inspire, Dream is my Motto ;)

Animeswordmaster - January 1, 2008 05:16 AM (GMT)
I live everyday for tomorrow. Take everything as a challenge and go for it! My motto is sort of ripped from Naruto but is excellent nonetheless.

Hard work defeats a natural genius anyday.

TwilightZekk - January 6, 2008 05:18 AM (GMT)
I perfer to take life in pill form.

Seriously though, I try to plan only long term and mid short term.

Easier on me.

Venadamo - January 6, 2008 05:44 AM (GMT)
I just try take it one step at a time and never give up.

Diva - January 24, 2008 11:14 PM (GMT)
Me? I don't plan my life. I just sit back and let it take me for a ride. When things don't go my way (which oftentimes they don't), sure, I'll b**ch and moan about it for a while. But when I wake up the next morning, I'll have all but forgotten I had something to b**tch and moan about in the first place.

I say let the people who like to plan, plan, and the rest of us just sit back and take life as it comes.




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