Have you ever had to make a decision or choice between two people who love you both?

yes.

it sucked. i regret who i chose.

Hi winged =]
Yes i have. But for me it was more like a choice between 4people.
I made the right decision - i couldn't be happier.
Just go with your heart.

Yep, and even though it didn't last as long as I hoped because of external reasons, I don't regret a single second.

I am really glad someone made this topic, i am in a decision making process right now. Let me give you the low down

I like 3 girls a lot, but i dont know who to choose

one girl is the most beautiful girl i have every met, shes funny, fun to be around, and i can really be myself around her (and a cheerleader- but looks and skills are a plus)

the next girl, is fun, spontaneous, funny, enjoys a lot of what i do, and shes to too bad look wise

the final girl, is hot, fun, has the same peeves as i do, and we can have talks about a lot of stuff (for example, she asked me what i thought about her boobs and butt last night- and wanted me to compare them to other girls in our class)

HELP SOMEONE PLEASE

Well, like someone else said in this thread before hand. Follow your heart. Whichever one you're most drawn to should tell you an answer. For me, the first one you wrote seems like the one I'd choose, and because you wrote her first, chances are you're leaning that way too.

I've had to choose between two people before. But what sucks is when I'm put in a situation where I like a girl who likes me back but she also likes another guy. That has happened to me several times, and they almost always end up with the other guy because I manage to f**k myself over. =/

yea dude, i know the feeling, i forgot to add that number one has a bf,

Hmmm.. Well, if you REALLY like the first girl then you can always wait until she and her boyfriend are no longer together. And if that is an unlikely situation, you have two other girls you can get to know and develop a good friendship with, and then maybe more.

Your options are open, just be open minded and look at different perspectives of all of your decisions.

I have the opposite problem, too many people like me -_- I hate it because they are all beautiful girls, some which I like but if I pick one all the others will be upset. >.>

GOD IM BACK IN A NEW SITUATION

PRetty much, i decided on 2, but then, i realised that i might like sumone not on the list


this new girl is hot, funny, nice, rich as god- which doesnt matter to me, but she is really opinionated, like more than most girls

I have had to choose but not in a long time. It was when I was a little younger..about 6-7 years ago. I chose who I was meant to choose at that time but I am with who I was meant to be with in the end now.

Go with that girl. I may sound selfish here, but you're probably not getting married in the near future, correct? Enjoy yourself while it lasts. She sounds like a radtastic girl (excuse my self-made adjective). So why not?

I know this is an old topic, but oh well.

I've been in this situation and one where I wasn't the only girl a guy liked. It's really hard and I hate having to pick between guys. Recently I had a guy come to me telling me that he was ready to be in my life and take on the responsiblities he had to to be with me. I was unsure of him cause he's 10 years younger than me (he was 17) and it scared me that I was even considering him... However I did like him, so after thinking on it all for a day, I decided to grill him really hard with questions and as we were agreeing to be together, this other girl he liked more called him and long story short, he appologized to me and went with her. >.>' So I'm really glad me and him didn't hook up. I'm no one's second choice and I won't be a first choice out of pity. =/

Anyways, I'm kinda going through a rough situation right now, I'm in love with my best friend and like 3 or more guys wanna date me (I say more cause a few others cat like it and suggest they wanna date me, but they are too shy to straight out tell me and I'm a blonde, so if guys don't tell me straight out, I'll never figure it out, haha). Even though I want a guy in my life so badly right now, I'm just waiting it out. I'm not sure any of these guys are right for me and I don't wanna get into another failed relationship to break my heart. Well that reason and the fact that I'm totally in love with my best friend. *sigh* Love can suck sometimes...

you can say that again.

Well first of all your an idiot. =]

Comparing people how on they look isnt right so might as well drop number 2 since it isnt going to work anywase.

Since I have the need to say that I feel like your in high school or somewhat might as well drop number 3 because sex and high school isnt going to cut out if you somehow get the snake into the whole without using protection.

If you want to be popluar might as well date number one since she is a cheerleader, she might cheer for you more in bed then the other two just because she is a cheer leader.

The thing is that, make sure of your feelings. these mixed emotions might tell you that you like them as a friend and want them as a friend =] any how. number 3 only wants you to acknowledge her because she is too insecure about her looks =]

just because you feel comfortable with them means that they are great to hang out with, but when it comes down to relationship wise, are you fricken serious? =]

I see that number 3 wants your full attention on her just because she wants to feel sexy because of this thing called low self esteem =]

I'm hawt but I dont need people to tell me that I am hawt =]

Comeon get someone who knows that they are hawt and dont need to like know from your mouth that they are hawt enough for you.

Hey things might change once you date them. friends are friends.. but when you comes to being in a relatioship it changes =]

and how do you know if they like you to? their feelings? what are they?

And for number 4 well dont date someone just beause her family has a lot of money... it's relationship man how thick headed are you?

OMG she money and hawt.. seriously? you high schoolers crack me up sometimes when you dont even know who to choose it like asking if I should go for a bum or a rich guy what would you think?

Dude it's a simple matter as.. do you want MONEY as your girlfriend? Or would you want someone so when you walk in the streets you both look good together? I wouldnt even go near the part where you can find yourself in them and respect each other personality and looks. It is nothing like that.

Dude grow up even more then find a girlfriend, before you make someone pregnant.
You dont even have a case here. You case here is stupid and retarded (my favorite words since I couldnt find a good word enough to explain myself because I cannot stop laughing your stupidity). You have no reason to choose. Grow up some more before you make someone pregnant.