Ready for some intense sh!t?

Well I was gone all weekend 'cause I went through a rough break up.
Okay guys, does this sounds weird to you?

On Friday she was telling me how much she loves me, and needs me. And she even went as far as to say she will not leave me anytime soon and she hopes I won't leave her.

Then. Saturday. She says she needs her time and space to think? So she goes to a hockey game and flirts with all the guys who I hate. Yea, lots of thinking involved.
So I was basically lurking msn all day waiting for her so I could have an update.

Personally, I thought she just needed time 'cause she was upset.
So she gets online tells me all about how awesome it was.

Then, Sunday.

"I think we should just be friends. I got to thinking and I just got pushed away."

WTF. Can you say emotional slap to the face? I wasn't expecting it at all. I had done nothing to her and I still love her now..

She's completely moved on and she flirts with guys in front of me at school like nothing ever happened.

It hurts and I want to move on but I find it so hard when everything was so perfect and BAM out of nowhere.

Any advice?

[ I missed a lot of stuff but this weekend is basically a blur and I can't remember half of what went down.. ]

Man that sucks, and thats really retarted.....same thing happened to me last year. She was like, after 3 days, I'm sorry but theres this over guy who really likes me and I like him, so sorry...i wasl ike wtf, but that doesnt matter now, my gf and i have been going out for almost a year..Though, I hope everythinggets betters between you and this girl.

my advice is ditch her, and completely erase her. Once anyone betrays they should become irrealevant, but that is just what I think. and I am screwed up or so they say >.>

Well either she is a <insert bad word>, or just messed in the head. I never get why girls do that. When I was in high school several of my friends would pull that crap, and it was usually for no reason at all.

I would say the same as above. Forget her. And when/if she ever changes her mind, think things over carefully. If you think she'd pull that garbage again, then tell her where to go and how to get there. But if you really care for her, and want to take that chance, then go for it.

You are in luck (well, kinda this situation sucks), This happened to my friend a few weekends ago. The whole story is way to long, but heres the short one. My friend switched schools this year to come to my school, but his GF was at his old school. One day out of no where, not even an I need to think sign, she just said, I dont think this is going to work, lets just be friends. My friend was in a spiraling depression for about 2 weeks, but now he is all good, and it just so happens that me and him are double dating next week, he finally found sumone else, just wait a little bit AFI, things will work out, u can still be friends with her but next time she flirts with guys in front of u be like, Why the FCKu do u do this, you know it affects me. But just start looking at girls in a more intimate way, and things will work out.

'Watch it you ugly coward, I will pluck every bleach blonde hair out of your big head before you can say 'French Manicure!' - Asuna, Negima

Remember that quote well AFI. Simply because it holds a bit of meaning to this. Consider it a very wise choice. Move on. Don't dwell on it. The more you do, the more you are going to regret it.

Maybe she just likes the idea that she's still desirable by other guys besides you. *Shrugs* Either way, you're better off erasing her from your life. Move on. Plenty of other girls to choose from. =/

Hells yeah.

How nice of her.

I don't know how you know that, but whatever.

Upset about?

There's three possibilities. She either likes you enough that she's scared of getting hurt, she likes you but scared of hurting you...or she's just a cynical girl. I wouldn't know. I never met a cynical girl though. I should talk to more girls.

Well, you can either be active and try to win her back (assuming she really does like you in that way) or you could just be passive and get through it.

My assumptions and hypothetical conclusions probably caused more problems than help. But you get what you paid for.

In response to you SAB:

I knew what she did because she told me she was going to the hockey game and it's a small local town so things get heard.

I asked her what was wrong and she said nothing, but obviously there was.

She said she feared getting hurt and feared love because so many guys have screwed her over. I told her I wasn't one of those guys and that she's being a hypocrite by screwing me over.

As for getting her back, to me it doesn't seem likely. She's being sort of stuck up about it.

Oh my, I'm too confused right now.
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Thanks for the advice everyone. I was expecting like.. no posts XD

sounds like 1000 times goodbye by Megadeth

I was like that..but I had my reasons. I was going through a lot, losing my home and all so I couldn't handel a boyfriend. Maybe she's at a rough point in her life? I'm just trying to see both sides of the coin here. But if she's like that the best thing you can do is to give her space and wait if you think she's worth it, or move on so the two of you can heal on your own. Personally I'd rather take the chance and roll the dice, even though I might miss out on the love of my life. Time moves on,and so should you.

Thanks. I think I might just move on.

It sucks but eh, she's beginning to get to the point where she is pissing me off.

On Tuesday after the long weekend when it all happened she was as happy as possible.. her msn name was "best weekend in a longgg time! =D" Which was a real insult to me.

She moved here 2 months ago and I knew her before hand. We started dating. She was at the prime of her year, quote from her. And she said I made her happy and yea.

Whatever haha. I just don't get girls.

You never will get them. Hell AFI, I'm 21 and I STILL don't get them. But it seems like she moved on, so that's exactly what you should do. Take advice from her and lick the wounds that were opened, the open the next door and step through it.