I apologize for my use of vocab, but I need to let this out.

WHY? WHAT THE f**k?!

Why do relationships have to be such a big part of our lives?

I like her! So step off!!

I liked her, so I dated her!!

Leave me the f**k alone!! Of course, I like you, too... But I'm not ready for you. I want HER first.

f**k it all.. WHY does it have to be that way? Ever care about how I feel?

Maybe I don't want Her. Maybe I don't want YOU!

Maybe I want HIM! What would you say now?


Before you b**ch about how horrible YOU feel because of me.. Think of how I feel because of you.

YOU.
MAKE.
IT.
SO.
DAMN.
HARD.


FUUUUUUCK!!!!


and now I am done.

You know you could always stay single as nothing forces us to be in relationships and in spite of what some might say... it's not as bad as it looks... well that's what I think at least.

In any case, hopefully things will turn around in your favor soon.

I have no idea what you just typed.

Yea..agreed on that. If you can't handle it..just stay single for a while until you know how to get a grip of yourself.

Also agreed that it might not be as bad as it looks. Maybe you're over dramatizing it.


:S I'm not absolutely positive about what you just typed either. Sooo, I really can't give any advice on this one. If you want to tell about what's wrong though, I'd be glad to try and help talk through it.

There's a bright side to everything. =]

Single is good, although being in a relationship has its ups and downs and when you’re in one you’re not excluded to one side or the other. Personally I just don’t put that much emphasis on relationships, I have recently adopted the "whatever happens, happens" attitude. If someone comes my way then great if they don’t then oh well my life still goes on :P. Sorry I couldn’t give you much advice though, like concrete angel stated, iam not too sure on what happened so I don’t really know what to tell you :(.

Dont just choose anyone and go into a relationship just because you feel you need a partner or you hate being single.

Find the right person. You have a whole life ahead of you, dont waste it while your young by getting tied down and upset.

So it wasn't just me.

*sigh* Relationships can kiss so many people's asses ATM. They do not help many peoples lives, only ruin them. Anyways hun, drop any relationship staus you have and just say I can't take this s**t right now and walk off. Come back when you feel better.

Why don't you tell us how you really feel? :P

I'm just kidding. Relationships are hard but if you find the right one, it's worth it.

See, this is where I disagree with most people. No matter how wonderful someone is, or how perfect they seem, or how much you love them, the strain and ridiculousness of a relationship with them is almost NEVER going to be worth what pitiful amount of pleasure and happiness you get out of it.

Of course, the only relationship I've ever been in has left me very cynical and bitter, so take my feelings with a grain of salt. XD

The relationship I am in is VERY worth it. In a year, this man will be my husband and I don't know what I would do without him. He is my rock. We do fight...knock down and drag out fight...but it's always okay in the end. We talk about it and we know that we love each other. We are committed to making it work.

I think relationships are very important. Though, at the time, you don't think so. I'm sure, when you're 40/50 years old and still single, you would've wished to keep the person you deeply loved. :)

i've vowed for the past few years to stay out of a relationship.. i havent been looking for one and really didnt want one. wellll... one just like.. was thrust upon me. when you're in a relationship where love goes both ways.. it feels so great. i couldn't live without it now. well, i could but it would suck. so just dont get into a relationship bc you want to be in one.. because when it means nothing it can be quite painful.. and sucks really bad, lmao.

Yay! I was just about to b**ch about the exact same thing here! This such a totally stupid part of the forum!

If you can't figure out a "relationship" for yourself, then shut up! Honestly relationships are so simple!
money+valuables+sex=love/good relationship
no material items+ugliness=no relationship

Thanks so much Alyec Exsilium, finally got what I've always wanted to say out there! I was getting tired of the usual "sorry to hear that things didn't work out for the 2 of you", "congrats on getting another boyfriend", and "I hope things go better for you in the future."

What the fuc.k. >_>

I totally disagree with your equations.

i disagree too. im about to quit relationships too. never should've gotten back into dating.

I'm going to go into a relationship just to try it out.

Being single allow's you to find the right person. If that person ruin's your relationship then there more fish in the see.