Ok, so this girl in my grade and i are becoming friends. And i flirt around with her a lot and try to be "sweet" as everyone says to do, but do i just one day be like, Will you be my girlfriend, or, will you go out with me??? Im really not good at askin people out. But yea, we grinded last night at our homecoming dance, it was pretty nice. :D HELP PLEASE

If you like her, and she seems interested in you, then yeah, ask her out. It won't hurt to ask.

If you were me, the girl would have asked you out countless times by now, unfortunately you are not, so let's work with what you have.

If you are confident in your 'Skills' and you believe that you are the right person for her, don't waste any time, ask her out.

Considering the fact that you constantly flirt with her and she allowed you to 'Grind', it is clearly obvious that you have a decent rate of success.

Don't rush it, or she might regard you as Desperate and take advantage, date you for a while and then dump you when a 'Cooler' guy comes along. - On the other hand, don't wait too long, or someone else might ask her out first, and if she has a soft nature, she will not reject him.

Of course, only you are able to determine whether you have known her long enough or not.
In conclusion, if you are not That ugly, ask her out. - If you are That ugly, ask her out. These days, some girls like ugly guys. (Shrek, for example. You. Beauty and the Beast. Etc.)

That said, the Evil Dark Knight owns you, because you are weak.
Why are you so weak? - It's because you lack Hatred.

it's better to ask and find out what she thinks , then not asking here at all =]
So go for it champ =]

while it is easier said then done, you should just ask her out.

Help doing that woudl be telling your friends about her and hopefully they'll pressure you into doing it. - if you think that you are ready to ask her out.

Yea, but like, what should i say when i ask?!?!?

will you go out with me should suffice.

Although you could say wll you be my girlfriend, I just always thought that sounded cheesey.

Or you could e cute and creative and like make a rigged fortune telling paper ma-bob or make a poem.

or you can use a variation of phraises, like "I really like you, I would like you to be my girlfriend, will you go out with me?"

"I know the Evil Dark Knight", that is all you need to say. If you understand, then give it a try.

Although,

I would suggest using those lines, as you do not know me well enough for my phrase to have much of an effect.

So what you flirt and grind, but how do you really know if she likes you to. Maybe she likes you as a friend and no more as that. I mean there isn't a time to be deperate now.

How long have you really really knowned her? Like for two days and your madly inlove with her. And if you been friends for so long, do you really think a relationship of lovers will work and how you do really know if she even has the same feelings for you.

People just have to realize is that, just saying that I Like you and lets go out, think that you are actually got the girl, when really this deep emotion that you have is just fooling you. Yes you like her, but how do you really know if ya'll want to be like in a relationship.

Think hard man. Because if you don't think and just went forward with it and had a relationship, what is to come out of it?

People just get into relationship because they had a hunch that they like them, and when you date them, it dies out and then you break up and don't even bother to talk to each other anymore. So what you like to date all your friends and see if it works out. and then just break it up with them just because you losted the feelings for them.

Don't even bother to ask her. If you cherish her as a friend it would rather stay as a friend and nothing further.

Sorry I am running my mouth xD

i agree with edel. although, many people see dating as a sort of step stone for real romance later on. that's why nowadays, a lot of relationships don't last too long or don't become too serious. still, some can last for years or so.

if ur really sure you want to ask her, probably the best way would just to utilize urself. like my friend tried the poetry thing (and rap) to all the girls he dated XD. several simply asked them. o_o i guess it depends on your qualities. you don't want to show a false sense of yourself if you REALLY want to go out, since the more time you spend after you're dating, the more that false sense will be torn away.

good luck =D

I agree with the last 2 posts.

My opinion, first of all do you really think she likes you? If or if not, either way it'd be better to confess what you feel. Second of all, if she does like you back, do you and CAN you see you guys in a LASTING relationship? If you can't, then there's no point in dating someone you know you won't end up with.

Honestly, while you might be with someone, the right person might pass by from right under your nose.

I think you should just ask her to sit down and talk to her about it, see how she feels, and see if you guys could possibly work out, and heck if you think it can last, then go for it and just ask her out. =]

Who the hell do you think you are? I bet you're gay anyway.

*AHEM*

Well, go for is all I gotta say. Really I'm just posting to set this dark kid strait.

lol, thanks

But seriously... You need to think if she is worth it or not. I mean of course you don't know, but it's not about trying or knowing, it's about you and what would you do, if you did lose the feeling.

Maybe you like spending time with her and yes there is nothing wrong with that. But can you really see her and you together. Not forever, but at least together and working it out throughtout all the long time you have.

instead of trying to date someone for "single" to disappear from your life, try to find someone who makes you truely happy and will stick by your side until whenever you guys really do get forever going.

I see a lot of young people getting married .. (and I am not referring it to you) And they really do think that they would be happy and whatever. But what comes out of it is that the man and woman alwase b**ch at each other, because of the other people's actions. But why? When you did get married with them, you first accepted that he/she did that, isnt that why you got married with them in the first place or something. What is the point in bitching and arguing and fighting, if you knew from the REAL BEGINNING THAT HE/SHE DID THOSE KINDA OF THINGS. No one can change for you and you cannot change someone to be who you like. It that happened I would alrdy not be here saying this.

It's like people these days only want this SINGLE s**t to dissappear and get like this TAKEN and MARRIAGE by their names to be happy that they (KINDA) found someone. But really does that person really really make you deep deep down inside happy?

I see a lot of failed marriages in young people, not just my family, but everyone else who got married so young. When you get married you have to throw everything away. Your freedom, your life, yourself mostly. Just to what? Just nothing.. Nothing gets back to you.

Of course you aren't going to marry her, but I just had to say this. People just need to think and re think, because if you don't, you can never make yourself happy.

You will only regret. That will be the best thing about you. Regrettion.

Seems to me like she likes you too, but don't say will you go out with me thats about the cheesiest least romantic thing EVER, ok any way i suggest that its obvious you both like eack other, eventualy when you think the time is right ask her out to a dance or the movies, like adults do its called a date, sorry if im speaking as if your stupid it seems some people in here are pretty danm stupid *cough*darkknight*cough*

Go for it, otherwise you will never know!

I'd suggest take it a bit slower than just bluntly coming out of no where and asking "Will you go out with me!?!?!" Take it slow and bring up the discussion of a relationship very subtlety. If she appears to like the idea of a relationship, then go for it. Its very bad to take things too quickly, just go with the flow man.

Thats the best advice ive seen in a long while.


I second it


although i would like an update on how things are going

Yeah how are things going dude?
I really think cheesiness is a good thing and it would work
the only rule i would give you is dont do it over MSN or a text message (unless you really have to)

Yea i told her, but she likes sumone else and refuses to tell me who it is, but i know its not any of my friends because the only friend i have that would be close to likable by a girl that is single, she said it isnt him. so, im just talking to a lot of girls and getting to know them, you know, seeing if they are likable, and if they are likable are they the kind of person i would want a lasting relationship with

That really sucks man
sorry to hear it

Maybe next time you should put on dark sunglasses. Then walk straight up to her and say "Come with me if you want to live." in your sexiest, Arnold-yish voice. Then pick her up if she doesn't comply ;)