Title: Relationships
AngelKing - September 3, 2007 08:18 AM (GMT)
What do you look for in relationships? Both friendships and more.
Massiv.Océan - September 3, 2007 03:52 PM (GMT)
Trust. That's the main thing I look for. I don't feel like explaining more. xD
Top Kirby - September 3, 2007 03:55 PM (GMT)
Yup, trust and love are both vital for any relationship to blossom whether it be a friendship or marriage.
Marasai - September 3, 2007 04:55 PM (GMT)
Trust and honesty, for both love and friendship.
Jeremy - September 3, 2007 05:12 PM (GMT)
Trust and a willing to see that someone is wanting to maybe try something new. Someone who is willing to make her own choices without regretting it. Someone who is funny and has a good sense of humor is always a plus.
Nikita - September 3, 2007 10:54 PM (GMT)
Friendship and honesty.. not alot really lol
Shadow - September 4, 2007 01:10 AM (GMT)
Trust is the main thing. You can go nowhere with someone without trust. It's the most important thing. Loyalty too. And by loyalty, I don't mean they do everything you say, and you do everything they say. By loyalty, I mean you are there for them no matter what, and they are there for you as well. You'd do anything to protect them. They do the same.
King of Mars - September 4, 2007 01:18 AM (GMT)
Friendship: I can trust you.
Relationship: I can trust you, you care about me,your loyal, physical features, features on the inside akaa good personality
Jc - September 4, 2007 01:57 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (AngelKing @ Sep 3 2007, 08:18 AM) |
| What do you look for in relationships? Both friendships and more. |
Trust, respect, and friendship
Those are the three main things I look for. You have to be able to trust each other, respect each other and have a good strong friendship amongst each other. I also look at the persons goals and desires. If you don't have goals for your self, i won't even bother with you.
LaughingMan - September 4, 2007 03:04 AM (GMT)
Honesty, trust, sense of humor, not high strung, someone who at least shares some of my interests.
Sparkrulean - September 4, 2007 03:10 AM (GMT)
I constantly find myself falling in love with fictional characters. However, my real life relationships seem to lack. Usually because of me..
I think I need a significant other to be bold. So that way I don't feel uncomfortable to be around her or him. I don't want to feel like I'm corrupting someone!! Then again, I don't want the person to be crazy.. A happy medium is well appreciated.
Of course, trust and love and all that other malarkey is important, too. j/k
Syarith - September 4, 2007 04:26 AM (GMT)
I don't look for anything in friendships or relationships, mainly because if I have them I've already found what I've been looking for.
whoelse - September 4, 2007 05:58 PM (GMT)
whats a replationship without trust.
Kitten - September 4, 2007 06:08 PM (GMT)
Someone who's not up for messing around and is all me. I don't want any open relationships.
A lovey person, who likes cuddles! And preferbly not shy and up for different things.
Kei-chan - September 4, 2007 08:16 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Marasai @ Sep 3 2007, 11:55 AM) |
| Trust and honesty, for both love and friendship. |
Exactly. Honesty and Love are about the two most building blocks in any relationship, professionally or whatnot.
LaughingMan - September 4, 2007 09:50 PM (GMT)
If you can't trust someone, then there's nothing left, simple as that.
Jc - September 5, 2007 01:17 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (LaughingMan @ Sep 4 2007, 03:04 AM) |
| Honesty, trust, sense of humor, not high strung, someone who at least shares some of my interests. |
Now those are the best qualities right there!
simplyatbliss - September 5, 2007 04:19 AM (GMT)
Someone you can depend on because seriously, one of the most annoying things ever is waiting to hang out and then all of a sudden the other person cannot make it.
Trust, which is too obvious to explain.
Someone that has wit because I rather not have a boring person to talk to. People that can hold their own arguments (with logic and facts) are fun.
Funny, which is obvious too.
Cuteness, and not just in the physical way but also the way someone acts. People that act cute are some of my best memories of people. It's probably the most important criteria for me as far as attractiveness goes.
I could probably think of more but whatever. I'm tired.
Vivian - September 5, 2007 03:05 PM (GMT)
Reliable, trusworthy,and honest. Kindness and understanding wouldn't hurt either. I mean you don't want an honest jerk on your hands now would you? Lol.
A.FIRE.INSIDE - September 10, 2007 03:15 AM (GMT)
Trust, honesty, loyalty and care.
beta - September 10, 2007 03:26 AM (GMT)
limitations.
well, that and what simplyatbliss posted. :P
Anime Chick - September 10, 2007 06:05 AM (GMT)
Friendships: A good sense of humor, trust, honesty, respect, compassion, and the ability to RUN FROM THE COPS! [Haha, joking.. Really, I am. I swear.]
Romantic Relationships: Love, respect, trust, honesty, sometimes blunt towards things, a good sense of tolerance, a BIG sense of humor, understanding, and must be able to perform my Mexican voodoo hexes on people I don't like. XP [That was another joke there, duckies. I can say that though, I'm Hispanic.]
I think everything, no matter what the sense of status is to someone, you just gotta have love, and honesty. Humans and animals cannot live without love, you run and get emotion from that. So yeah. XP
micky90 - September 16, 2007 01:37 AM (GMT)
Ive been in a Relationship for 2 months now, and i trust my Partner very much, i would never doubt them, and that whats made us last so long :D
TheGremp - September 20, 2007 07:41 AM (GMT)
for friends, I look for someone who accepts me for who I am and doesnt lead me into crap, and is just plain fun to hang out with
in a girl I look for someone who's not just a pretty face, I look for personality. Also, I look for someone who is looking for an actual relationship, not just going out for a week then just breaking up
darcy tukers#1 fan - October 8, 2007 12:30 AM (GMT)
Trust and honesty, for both love and friendship. ;)
†Setsuna† - October 16, 2007 04:50 PM (GMT)
What happened to my post? O.O
well, if I'm going to date someone, Personality is KEY. I'm a big joker, and if you don't understand my humor it's hard to tolerate me sometimes. Especially if I know you well enough to know your insecurities cause I have a tendency to pick them out.
Looks: eh, I really don't care, but I mean who doesn't want a hot bf/gf?
The biggest thing of all:
music! If you listen to rap it's not gonna work. I'm sorry but I just can't tolerate it. Gives me a stomach ache, literally.
Ryanplex - October 18, 2007 08:07 AM (GMT)
Trust and honesty are the main ones for me.
sparklynshiney - October 18, 2007 01:58 PM (GMT)
trust.
i dont really trust people very often, but when i do i (unfortunately) give my whole heart to them. it takes me a while to open up to people but once i do i'm a different person. in a relationship you need trust.. you need to know you can trust your partner when you're separated.
friendship
before you can actually be in a relationship.. you've got to be friends. if not i think it feels awkward. and usually you get attracted to your friends after a while anyway. you have to be happy in a relationship and i think that comes from being friends, really.
blehhh theres more but im sleepy. you just have to actually love someone.
Massiv.Océan - October 21, 2007 10:36 AM (GMT)
Friendship: Friends need to be honest, cool, funny, social, random. They have to make time for you when you're in trouble and when you ask them to come over to your house to talk about the problems. They have to know how to comfort you and how to take care of you when you're down or when you need it. Friends who aren't honest, are no friends to me at all.
More: Same as friendship but the partner has to love me and treat me nice.
GuardianSin - October 30, 2007 03:55 AM (GMT)
I look for people who have something that they are looking for for in the future. Someone who wants to become something. I search for true friendship, someone I can always talk to no matter what. With this friendship I can trust them. I want to be with someone that is kind and somewhat sensitive. Someone that is protective.
just_another_girl_in_love - November 2, 2007 06:50 PM (GMT)
Trust and compatibility. If you don't have similar interests it can be hard finding things to talk about - if you have completely different interests conversations tend to turn into debates - it's alsot hard to find things to do that you both enjoy if you have different interests.
I also look for somebody that is generally a happy, bubbley person that i know will care for me - and that i can care for.
Concrete Angel - November 26, 2007 05:14 AM (GMT)
Friends: Trust, honesty,loyalty, and reliability. It's good to always know a friend is going to be there for you, and my friends have to be people I can definitely talk to about things.
Relationship: Everything I would look for in a friend plus more. I dunno, I wouldn't be able to be with someone I didn't have at least something in common with. Although, when it comes down to it, I look for someone that I know I can see myself with in the future. There's no point in having a relationship if you know it's not gonna last.
Poptart - November 29, 2007 10:50 PM (GMT)
Well, i asked out my friend, which was a risky move, and we dated for about 6 months, broke up for a month, then got back together, but it wasn't a serious relationship. Truthfully just recently we had a talk about why i love her and if i meant it, and i don't know how she took it. She's probably thinking this whole thing over, hopefully it will end nicely.
For me, looks are something thats a good thing, but i base everything on personality. I have a pretty sick sense of humor sometimes so someone who gets taht and can laugh is nice. I persoanlly think people base things on looks too much these days. My "gf" is a good looking girl, but shes got a nice personality and shes smart, shes got a good sense of humor, but not one like mine ^-^;; Shes a quiet girl, not saying shes shy, shes pretty out going, its just that if you ask her a qestion she'll probably answer you or she'll just go into her thoughts and completly ignore the question. I really like her but if she doesn't want to get into a serious relationship i won't force her, we'll just stay friends and if she is ever ready she knows who to call, and no its no the ghost busters XD (that was a lame joke >_>)