I think this friend. And this friend we been through a lot together. We been friends for 3 years so long. And I feel like with all the help that i given him he doesnt really respect that. I mean I give him advices! And he thinks that i am trying to change him in someway. no I am trying to help him so he can do better with his life and not run around with these girls online. it's like he couldn't even respect that. yeah I blockhim on and off because sometimes he pisses me off here and there, because he is alwase telling me about some girl asking him out! yea I feel kinda jealous but I leave that alone because I have a dearly loved boyfriend alrdy. I mean why can't he just grow up and just try to do something for himself and not date these girls online who dont even give him anything but just more pain later on! i mean what are the benfits of online dating! what is so good about online dating! Why must you date everyone girl that opens her damn arms to you even thou you know that it will never last! Why do you go on and go thinking that you will find someone online when that is nuthing but bullshit in your damn fucken head!


OMFFFAG!!!! Nothing like getting a threat PM from him! ARe you fucken serious! YOU ARE NOW MY ENEMY! Dude I have plenty ! It doesnt look like enemies online is going to do anything bad to me!

Look you can fucken take it anyway you fucken want! Okay! i have enough of you and your damn childish way of life! here i am looking out for you! Like an older sister would But you! Since you are still young and stupif you only think about what you could have done!


But let me ask who the f**k was there when you were crying like a fucken baby because someone broken your fucken jaw! Who was fucken there to go through the whole abc's just to understand what the f**k you were saying! Who the f**k was there trying to get you up and running and say that everything will be fucken fine! If you would love to throw that the crap taht i fucken did for you! Fucken go ahead and i can live another day knowning that you were nothing but a piece of living trash on my porch and all i need in my life to fucken do was throw you the fucken away. Just to make me realize that throughout all of this YOU ARE SERIOUSLY ARENT FUCKEN WORTH IT!

First of all. Don't judge online dating just by what he's been through. Not that stupid crap doesn't happen because of it, but there have been and are relationships that do work out that way. Providing it's the right person anyways.


This is basically nothing, but a rant. It's ok to want to feel appreciated sometimes, but a good friend knows how to be PATIENT and just wait for advice to break through. It may take a while for him to realize things that he's doing wrong, and yea there's nothing wrong about ranting on and on about things when you get frustrated, but to say that he isn't worth it? Now that's kind of crossing the line. If you really are his friend, you wouldn't just go and say he isn't worth it and whatnot.


I don't have a right to judge you over it, but be a bit patient. Everyone moves along at a different pace, it may take him a while to figure out whatever it is he's doing wrong.

I had enough patiences. i am not going to sit there and watch him does his mistakes over and over again.

Its like watching a dog biting his tail over and over. Not so interesting.

Yeah so what. I give a lot of patience towards alots of people alrdy. And I still have even more. its just another problem forme to leave.

I only lefted because I knew i was already making it harder on him. I never that me saying even more crap was going to come. I only did it because I knew what i could have done to him. hey if he hates me it's fine at least he is better off withut me. I know what i can do and i have come to a realize what I already done. yes its my rant. =] Im human. Sometimes we just couldnt think about the other person and how they felt. But iunno. It seems kinda peaceful not talking to him. =] Maybe it was better off this way.

And yes I judge, its there might as well just use it just like everyone else.

Good or not friend if there is a such kind of thing in the world. I dont believe in it. =] maybe becase I really never had real friends to start with. =] But anywase as for me.

I guess you could say I am a good friend for leavinghim, because I never I would have gotten in the way of everything he would have done. But i lefted anywase because I know that what he choose in life he his decisions and his alone and i should still stand up and be proud of him. Just further away from him. But it's fine. Friends come and go and dont talk smack about good friends of not good friends.

As a friend I knew where i stand. and i didnt like it. It got to me. And this is the step taht I took. I dont regret it. =]

A good friend knows how to stick around for friends. Sometimes, yes you have to do what's best for you. Hope things work out.

I only hope that he forgives me for what i done and maybe one day we can go where to where we both can open each others arms again, but until then I hope him the best of everything.

Well I hope you at least tell him that. :S

Sorry to say, but I find you ignorant. You sit there, telling HIM what HE needs. "Omg, why's he dating online any way? Why can't he do this, why can't he do that?" Do you rule his life? Do you even have any right to tell him? You have a boyfriend, concentrate on your relationships rather than his.

And to sit their and basically say online relationship are pointless is insanely ignorant. Just because it's not something you'd do, doesn't restrict anyone else from doing it - and, just to get your facts straight, I know a lot of people who've found love online or through dating agencies and are really happy.

But, that aside. Stop complaining about what he's doing and concerning yourself where you don't need to be. Let him get on with it, and you get over it.

Leave him to do what he wishes.

Geez that is what I done. Yes I am ignorant. Who isn't. Yes I sat there and bitched about what he does. Because I did the same too. But I knew what i was doing. That is so I lefted. He doesnt need to know my reason for leaving just because he doesnt have to.

He told me once that If I cared I should have not lefted him. So I stood, but in the case where i bitched about everything he did. All talk no action. Yeah, I just didnt want him to do what I did and he is following that quite closely by.

But yeah I lefted and I wanted to b**ch just like everyone else did. I don't think I was wrong expressing my feelings on it. Hey at least I didnt tell a lie. O.o..... EVeryone does it why can't I?

Yes you can call me anything you want to make you feel better about yourself like that. But I wouldn't care.

At least I know that I done something that wouldn't effect him later and I lefted. Period. No more contact with him. I blocked him in everything.
He can do what he wishes now. But there isnt going to be someone to listen to him anymore.

WTF!! seriously. Don't act like you do know me. I done many online dating in my pasted year and I know how they work. So don't sit there and judge me like what i did to my ex-friend. I know what online dating is all about. Nothing but desperation attempt to find a person to love because they cant in real life. It's better to love someone then no one??? Even from anywhere? Like 100000000 miles away from you?

No matter what the excuse was to date online. Yes I had no right, yes I don't think I was wrong. I mean it's called online dating for a reason. You will never ever meet that person if you don't have any money. Hopelessly lies isn't going to keep each other together. Just knowning that they will never see that person ever will just tear them apart. But yet it's like a cycle it keeps going and going and going... Knnowing that every person you date online you will never see and give each other hopelessly lies of seeing each other. Can you really live like that?

Where there is only a voice but no face no matter how many pictures you see of them.. it's alwase a blurr because you never really saw them face to face. It's just a voice. A voice of someone. No touch, no kiss, no hug. How can people be happy with that?


THIS WILL BE THE LAST TIME I SAID THIS! I LEFTED HIM GOOD! ALRIGHT! I AM NO LONGER SPEAKING TO HIM! I NO LONGER HAVE ANY CONTACT WITH HIM! So uh just stop saying for me to leave him. Goshy I did ever since I wrote the first post. And I do not need to apologise for my opinions and belief.

You have some growing up to do.

Their just for people who can't get with people irl? What are you on? Seriously. I've known countless people who are pretty and date online AND offline.

Honestly, you're so ignorant it's unbelievable.

Oh so what now, everyone should go date online now because they can. And it's so easy to find someone online then trying to find one offline. Wonderful.

I wasn't talking about the fugly folks. At least they try to find someone offline and not make a desperation attempt to date someone online. :P

It's not desperation, love doesn't JUST happen irl with best friends. It can happen anywhere.

Who are ugly? How can you choose? Different people are attracted to different things.

No, I never once said everyone should date online. I just slated you for insulting it.

Yes, you're still ignorant.

Wow so how many times are you going to waste your time here trying to tell me the same thing over and over just because I have a different belief then you do?

Wow aren't you so demanding in s**t just because someone doesnt go with you.

Should I hold your hand now and tell you that everything is alright and that the whole world isn't coming down just because there is an ignorant person in life. =D

Seriously dude, whatever you say to me I wouldn't care. Everone have their own opinions on it and trying to change their opinions aren't going to work. Hey live with it someone people have wayyyyy scarier opinions then me. I like to say whatever I get people's attention and it did and now it won't leave because it wants to be right in everyway they want.

Seriously dude. You really need to get the f**k off the computer screen and smell the fresh air because insulting my life isnt going to make everythings better. I mean it makes you feel really good calling me things right. Got that adrenline rush of YES I CAN BEAT HER? -coughs- props no props in kids game, you know. =]

So back to giving me advices not trying to lecture on things I already know and not wanting to go with it. =]

Ok guys, last time I'm gonna say it.....stop this crap now or warnings will be dished out. I don't want to have to pry you apart in every thread you both want to engage in.

LMFAO.


You're such a hypocrite! You insult me for insulting you, yet you proceed to post insults to me anyway. You're doing the exact same thing.

Have fun with that.

=]

Seriously who isnt a Hypocrite. That word is nothing to mean but I dont thrive in doing whatever I couldn't do like you.

=D But anywase. INsulting is just part of life and if I feel the need to use it I will.

Ok you have both been warned. If that meter reaches 100, you both get suspended so may I suggest you end this bickering now.

Ok 1st order of business^ I see this warning.

I am not here to bicker w/ either party. I have read this entire thread & want to make a statement. I am not in this bicker party I just want to say something.

2nd order of business: What I want to say.

I think IMO that Edel. is right in the decision of leaving this person the way it was done. This person that Edel. left was clearly using Edel. as a crying post when ever this person got rejected by the opposite sex or what ever the case may have been Edel. was still their safe person to go to. Some times w/ relationships like that where your friend f**k's up way to many times you just have to let them go no matter the consequences. I believe Edel. was correct in the steps taken to be rid of this "friend".

3rd order of business: What I think in general..

I think that Trigger also has some points. There are a lot of ppl who DO date & have wonderful relationships online. I've even seen a wedding online where two ppl are married online & live like husband & wife but in different states. It is an odd world that we live in now a days & the fact that some ppl want to have someone that they are in love with from very far away is a very wonderful thing for these ppl to have. Some ppl in our new world are just happy w/ the thought of having someone that they are in love w/ in their life. No matter how far away from them they are. I am not an expert on this at all, this I will admit that this is just a theory that I have is all. I just know that meeting someone & falling in love w/ some one online IS a part of todays society. My brother even met his girlfriend online & they just started to live together.

These are all my opinions, & I am entitled to them. Thank you for you time 8)

Yes you make much sense in some stuff. But it's been since a long while and I haven't talked to him. Iunno stress just seems gone. =] More problem amerge, but it's just life.