So I have this friend. I like her a lot, but she has a boyfriend. I like her friend too, but I don't think she will go out with me. Unfortunately, her other friend likes me, but I only like her as a sister; I was considering going out with her so that it made her feel better... but then one of my guy friends likes her and she hates him; he told me not to go out with her.

Then on the 19 I will be going with this friend that likes me to a bonzia staff meeting (a meeting for staff at the anime convention) it will just be me and her, on the 19, a Saturday. We will be together from 9:00 am to about 1:00 pm, and i don't think i can talk her out of it, and i don't want to either. I have asked everybody I know who likes anime to come with me, but they all have plans (i think some of the girls friends that i asked ether hate me to much to go. Or want to give the girl a chance with me. And the friends of mine that i asked, just won't come...)

I have only known this girl for about 2 months. And i don't know what I should do.

Go to the anime convention? Nothing HAS to happen you know. If you're worried she'll make a move, maybe this will be a good opotunity to let her down gently; if you do want to be with her, a nice chance to ask her out.

The girl you do like, I'd leave a lone. She has a boyfriend and flirting/asking her out will only result in things getting awkward. Wait until she splits from the boyfriend and then if you're still single, go for it. Either way, don't let other people down for this girl, she may never be yours and you kind've have to accept that.

The girl that does like you, don't go out with her for the sake of it. If she ever found out, she'd be more heartbroken over that prospect than the prospect of just never having you. Be her friend, but don't make it anything more unless you're ready.

Thanks for your advice.

I might have some troubles later though. Hope you're there to help.