Okay, I'm about to explode.

My sister really, REALLY doesn't know when to just shut the f**k up. I feel like I can't EVER talk to her about my personal life because she always has to use it against me (especially when we're arguing in front of my parents, she just LOVES to show her a** to them). Why, just today she broke out into a dramatic speech about my current crush (which my parents don't know about, so you can see where this is going), all because I ASKED TO BORROW THE MOTHER FUCKING CELL PHONE. Yep, right in front of my parents she blurted out, "Why do you need to use it? So you can call HIM!?" Of course my mom immediatedly asked who "him" was, and my sister continued to explain it to her in detail before I even had time to respond to the question that she had asked ME to begin with. Jesus!! I felt like I could just fucking kill her right there! And, as usual, I got a scolding from my parents afterwords. THANKS A FUCKING LOT YOU WHORE!!!!!!!!!

God, I can't stand living here! And for all of you who don't know, my parents are back together and we're all living under one roof again, but in a TWO BEDROOM HOUSE. Yep, that's right, I have to share a room with two other kids which means I get no privacy whatsoever. I hate this!! I can't even talk to anyone on the phone without my fucking sister listening to my conversations.

Not only that, but why are my parents so upset about me talking to some guy? I'm 16 years old for Christ sake!! Of course I'm going to be involved with guys or girls now! What did I ever do to lose their trust? I've never done drugs and I'm still a virgin, I thought they would be proud of me for respecting their wishes... But I guess my best isn't good enough for them.


.,:;'`Ghost`';:,.

Listen you need to turn to someone else to get advice such as an older friend or some sort, to talk to. Really, the only thing you can really do about your situation at home is not to talk to your sis about personal issues. I bet she doesn't tell you about all the things going on here life(I may be wrong :P)

Also if you are looking for some privacy than just take a long walk away from home, then you can talk in private. It's good for you because you will be getting exercise, as well as some privacy. Actually, even talking in the backyard along may be good for you. You can also use the bathroom, and talk in there w/ your phone but it may be kind've risky.

I see why your parents are mad, they don't know who this guy is; and they only want the best for you. YOU got to show them that the person you are talking to is as nice, kind as you are; if the time is necessary(like if your parents bring it up. Remember, you really don't need to bring things up like that to your parents, because of privacy reasons). Then, maybe your parents will understand.

I just put this up to get this off my back. >_<;;


.,:;'`Ghost`';:,.

At least you get to see your parents more than every now and then. >_>

One more thing , what exactly did your sister say about "him"?

Also , maybe they are upset because you didn't come and talk to them about it first? And if they think youre responsible, shouldnt you have your own cell phone by now so you wouldnt have to borrow someone elses?


Thats all i have to say on the matter.

No, my mom doesn't trust me with a cell phone.

I'M PASSING ALL MY DAMN CLASSES.

Grr, dumb b**ch.

Oh, and here's a new thing. My parents are talkignabout a DIVORCE!

D=<

.,:;'`Ghost`';:,.

Man Ghost, I certainly hope things improve for ya at some point.

Your life must be really complicated. And if she doesnt trust you with a cell phone why not just use your home phone then? :P


A divorrce eh? Hmm..

Well I hope things get better for you some point in time.

That sucks, Ghost.

I can kinda understand the sister problem. Both my sister, and our foster sister, did everything they could to make my life hell, when we were teens. I eventually moved out of my parents house, and into my granparents.

I was like that, i turned to a friend, who helps me deal with it, and so far it seems to be working, my sis an Mother still get on my nerves, but thats life.

Well, so that you guys know... my parents are having the divorce. e_e;

And I'm only putting these up here... ot just for advice. To just tell someone.

.,:;'`Ghost`';:,.

i know what thats like, my parents recently got divorced and it's created a divide between my family.

wow that stinks I have the same prob as you but its my brothers I'm sharing the room with

No offense, but I was kind of laughing when I read your post. It's not I'm laughing at you or anyone in particular so much as the situation. It just sounds so random.

Your parents were probably watching tv or eating their dinner. Your sister was there watching tv or eating or whatever too. You come in to ask for a cellphone. Then suddenly, she just blurts out all this crap about your personal life and began making a whole scene. This evolves to an even greater discussion on trust and relationships...all from just a simple question.

I say, let it be. Life is not over. You'll get through this situation. I remember when I used to rant over these kind of things, but I don't know. I guess my outlook changed, and I worry less about these kind of things. Sibling rivalry usually ends by the time ya'll get out of high school. Teenage privacy is always a big deal when you're young. And your parents are probably always going to question who you like or going out with. It's just the way it is.

I don't know about your mom and dad's situation, but my mom and dad's decision to get a divorce was probably the best idea they ever came up with, probably better than having my brother and me lol. They seem a lot happier after the divorce.

Yeah, I gave no concrete advice whatsoever. Oh well, lol.

No, it's ok. Not that I look back on it I realize that It was kinda funny. Bit she's still a b**ch though... e_e;

.,:;'`Ghost`';:,.

My parents got divorced. Then I left.

Hope things get better Ghost.

I hope your home improves ghost...my parents are hella nosy too...my mom and dad are divorced...i live with my step-mom, dad, mom, brother, sisters...dogs, cats, and fish. NO PRIVACY!!